We enjoyed a nice evening on the patio. The weather hasn’t been so hot the past two days. I have been off of work all week (okay, I’ll be back for a part day on Thursday). Susanna’s sister, Sofia, and her friend, Linda, were scheduled to arrive later in the evening.
We enjoyed a quiet day. Or as the boys like to call it, “a boring day.” But we all needed a quiet day. That isn’t to say that we sat around and did nothing all day (even though the boys like to think that).
Susanna got the house ready for her sister’s arrival. It is nice to be able to relax and not have to stress about being the one in charge. I just did the chores assigned to me… no planning or stress required. I figured it is nice to have only one person in charge of getting the house ready, and I’m happy for it to not be me.
I made some progress on the boat and trailer. In the morning Will and I went to Mid-City Steel to get new cross beams for the trailer. I finished painting one of the trailer wheels (black paint looks much better than rust). I even decided to take a little break from the chores and got the lathe out to turn some toys for Ben. I still don’t know what I’m doing on the lathe, but it is fun to try to turn wood.
After dinner the boys and I watched the end of “Return of the King.” We started the movie a couple of weeks ago, and it seemed a good way to end a quiet day.
Yesterday we headed north to Massachusetts for a visit to Six Flags amusement park. We spent the morning at the main park, and the afternoon at the water park.
It was a perfect way the split the day. We were able to do rides before the full heat of the day – and cool off in the water in the afternoon heat. Of course half a day at each park doesn’t give enough time to do all the rides…. but we have season passes so we will be returning several times this summer (starting with next week when Susanna’s sister, Rebecka is visiting).
Ben was finally tall enough to go on some of the bigger coasters. He still wasn’t tall enough at 51″ to do the really big rides, but we were able to do more than last year. The first ride we did when we entered the park was “Thunderbolt,” and old wooden roller coaster. Ben hadn’t been on one that big yet, and the look on his face for the entire ride was of pure shock. But he loved it, and wound up doing “Flashback” twice (he convinced Will to ride at the end of the day). Flashback has a corkscrew and loop that you do first forwards, then backwards. So in one ride, you are upside down 6 times. They didn’t make them like that when I was a kid. Or maybe they did, and I was too chicken to ride on them.
There has been a sailboat sitting on a rusting trailer in the garage for many years now. It is an 1973 O’Day 22 sailboat. A relic from a previous life of mine – one of the unfinished projects that I kept through the divorce.
I’ve had the sailboat for nearly 10 years. Or maybe 10 years, I don’t remember exactly when I bought it. I think it was the year before Will was born. But maybe it was the year after that. I have never put it in the water.
So it sat in the garage. The tongue of the trailer protruding into the driveway, an eyesore that went with the house. The kids played in it. It collected leaves and dirt. Before sitting in this garage, it sat next to the garage at the previous house I lived in.
It was easy to make excuses on why it was never finished. Having kids took up too much time. Then the new house. Then the divorce. And so here it sits. But in reality – it never got finished because it is easier for me to start projects than finish them.
It is a perfect sized boat. It fits on a trailer. It isn’t too large. But it is big enough to have a cabin that fits 4 people.
It is also going into the water this year.
I am pretty sure of that. Not because all of a sudden I’m good at finishing projects. But it has now become a family project. Susanna decided she was tired of it sitting in the garage, and she wanted to go sailing this summer. So with a little encouragement from her, the boat is making progress.
The boys and I have lifted the boat off the trailer. We have started progressing on the inside of the boat, and I have started working on the trailer. The goal isn’t to make the boat perfect, but to get it in the water. This weekend we will dig out the sails and see what kind of shape they are in.
It helps having someone around to keep things on track – and encourage me to finish things. It is much more fun to work on projects as a team.
The boys eventually did calm down last night. But of course not until Will had to head to my room to fall asleep. We all slept in. But not much (up at 6:30 – I guess better than up at 6). Now to cook breakfast….