I finally convinced Susanna to start writing a blog again. It was fun to read her old blog, even though I had to use Google translate, which made for some interesting reading. Her blog can be found here. I’m sure she will get the blog linked to Facebook once we both get back on social media tomorrow.
Category: Family
A relaxing Sunday
The boys are at their mother’s house this weekend (for the long weekend). The dogs are tired from a Friday night escape from the yard, and have been sleeping all day. That means a quiet house, and a Sunday morning to sleep in late.
Susanna is spending the day doing homework. We had talked about going out somewhere today, but it is cold and windy; I’m not sure we will find motivation to go out. I spent the morning updating the blog software, and after lunch I did a coat of joint compound on the new wall in Will’s room. I think I have two more coats to do to finish the project.
Susanna and I are trying a day away from Facebook (and Twitter and Instagram). Kind of a break from social media. I’ve noticed that I don’t really miss it. Maybe there is just too much noise, and not enough actual content on them these days.
A trip to the emergency room for Ben
What a way to start a transition day. I got a call around lunch time from the school nurse. Ben had slipped outside while playing on a snow pile and hit his head. He had blacked out for a minute or so and was quite shaken. His mom went to pick him up from school and take him to the doctor’s office. However, when she got to school, the pediatrician recommended that he be taken by ambulance to the emergency room.
I met Ben at the ER. His head hurt, and he didn’t remember a little bit after the fall. The hospital staff was very nice, and Ben was quite a trooper with all their questions and the scariness of being in a hospital emergency room.
He got a CT scan of his head to make sure there was no issue, and the scan was clean. Nothing on the scan. He was discharged in time for us to go back to the school and pick up Will. The final diagnosis was a concussion. He has to take it easy for a couple of days (until cleared by his doctor) and make sure to not hit his head again.
We got to the school to pick up Will, and all the kids in the after school program were very excited to see Ben. He was the celebrity of the afternoon. Everyone asked him how he was doing. I think he was a bit overwhelmed with the attention.
Blogging (the curtishome website and more)
Throughout my life I have, periodically, attempted to keep a journal. The attempts rarely last very long, and the entries are very sporadic. The few journals I have are interesting to go back and look at; they help me reflect on what I have done over the years. I wish I had been more consistent with keeping a journal. That is where this blog fills in.
I started this blog on November 3rd, 2010, over 2 years and 3 months ago. I started it after returning to my house in Preston after having moved out for a year in the process of my divorce. There used to be a blog on this site from before the divorce (from 2004 to 2005), but none of that information still remains here (though I can find some of it on web.archive.org).
So far it has been a pretty good undertaking. This will be the 214th post on the blog. I have written 60,688 words in this blog (including this post), with an average of 290 words per post. I have printed two books from this blog, so it won’t be lost as a journal. I’m sure as blogging goes, this isn’t a great accomplishment, but I am content with the progress.
I have started encouraging (or as they would say, forcing) the boys to write in their own blogs. Although they haven’t been the only ones to write in their blogs (a handful of the entries are from either myself or their mother), they have pretty impressive numbers. Will has written 3,172 words, with an average of 30 words per post. Ben has written 2,126 words, with an average of 29 words per post. They both have a printed book each from their blogging last year.
Winter Storm Nemo
Winter Storm Nemo plowed through here last night (I’m not sure when they started naming winter storms, but I’ll go with it), dumping 20+ inches (1/2 meter) of snow overnight. Surprisingly we didn’t lose power. However, I’m told that we will lose power shortly when they have to remove some trees from lines – I’ll see if I get this post done in time.
Will was supposed to have his birthday party today. That didn’t happen. But he got to go for a snowmobile ride with our neighbor; his daughter, Estelle invited him to go along. He was pretty cold when he got home from the ride, but according to him, “it was a blast.”
Ben has been fighting a cold, so I didn’t let him go for the ride. But he did get enough time outside to enjoy the deep snow.
The boys have both been alternating between playing outside, and taking it easy inside. Tucker spends most of his time outside in the garage, with short trips out into the deeper snow. It is even too deep for Targa to enjoy. Susanna and I worked on shoveling the driveway (though most of it was cleared by our neighbor and his snow blower – thanks Joel!). The sun even appeared for a little bit this afternoon.
Tonight we are going to sit down and enjoy a warm soup and bread. It is a vegetable soup, so the boys may starve tonight. Maybe we will even play some “Uno Attack” by candlelight later.
Dog stresses (gone again – this time for nearly 24 hours and counting)
Targa and Tucker took off again yesterday morning. This time they got out of the yard. Tucker has gotten out of the yard before, but I think this is the first time Targa has run through the invisible fence. They have been gone overnight – this is the second time they have been gone overnight (the last time, they took off on a walk in the woods). I don’t usually worry if one of them is gone by himself – alone they don’t go far. But together they can go for hours.
I think it is a combination of Tucker being a beagle, and the invisible fence covering too much of the yard. For most of the yard, the invisible fence follows the property boundaries, even when there is no natural barrier for the dogs (e.g. a stone wall). It makes it difficult to train Tucker to the boundaries in the back of the yard – he is pretty good at not approaching the boundaries when someone is watching him.
Yesterday, Will and I rerouted the invisible fence. It now only will allow the dogs in about half of the yard. It now follows a stone wall (a natural boundary for the dogs) for about half of the boundary. Hopefully this eliminates the section of the yard that Tucker has been escaping from. We also will build a fenced (real fence, not just invisible fence) section of the yard to let the dogs run in when we can’t watch them outside.
Our friends, Rob and Anna are re-homing their dog, Dillon, because he isn’t getting along with their horses. Rob asked if I wanted Dillon (he offered free eggs along with the dog – I was heading over to pick up eggs from their farm yesterday). I told him (joking) that we would trade Tucker for Dillon. When he told Anna what I said, she thought for a second and then said that they would rather keep Dillon.
Blog Books (and a vacation from posting)
The boys’ blog books arrived today from Lulu.com. They are perfect – the boys immediately took them out and read them. And Will didn’t even complain about having to write in his blog tonight.
Now I feel obligated to write in my blog. I have taken a nice 10 day vacation between posts. I think it was a combination of the cold weather, maybe being a little burned out of writing, and the stress of worrying if (thanks to congress failing to do their job) there will be a furlough of federal employees starting this April.
Susanna has started school again – her last semester. That means that she won’t be free to work on house projects during the week. And probably not much during the weekends as homework starts to pile up.
We have made some progress on Will’s room. I have most of the drywall up, and the window repaired/repainted. I’ll try to get pictures up later this week. I hadn’t spent much time at all in the workshop – I’ve been waiting for the weekend temperatures to get above freezing. Working on the power tools when it is too cold outside sucks. Even after I get the workshop warmed up, the heavy tools are still bitter cold to the touch.
The weather today gives hope for warmer weather. I know by Sunday we will be back into winter, but hopefully not for that much longer.
An afternoon in the city
Or, a visit to Madame Tussaud’s museum. Of course that isn’t all we did. But it is most of what we did. We were a bit slow getting out of the house (we couldn’t find Targa’s invisible fence collar that had been misplaced – but don’t worry the dogs found it while we were gone and chewed it up), but made it by lunch time. Will picked Mexican for lunch.
After lunch we walked through the museum. We then walked back to the train station, stopping at the New York Library for a short break (in the kids section). We were back in New Haven by dinner time (an exciting dinner at IKEA), and home before bed time.
On our way to the city
Waiting for the train in New Haven
Day trip to New Bedford, MA
Yesterday, Susanna and I took a road trip to New Bedford, MA. We planned to visit the New England Demolition and Salvage company. The plan was to look at possibly getting a new door for the kitchen. In hindsight, I should have measured for a new bedroom door. Our bedroom door is the only really crappy replacement door in the house (hollow core, flat panel). There are tons of doors that match the style of our house, most for $50-$60. Exterior doors are closer to $150-$200.
We wound up not buying anything at the salvage store – but it is a great place to get ideas. They have an acre of claw-foot tubs. Thousands of doors and windows. And countless other treasures.
We made it a day trip, with lunch after the salvage store, and a visit to some more antique stores (and a flea market in Fall River that wasn’t worth stopping at). We aren’t really in the market for anything specific for the house, but it is nice to get out and explore. We were home in time for dinner and a movie.